Seeking Perfection

I’ve been tagged by Varun.

So what do you do when you’re tagged?

  1. You have to come up with eight different quali­ties of your perfect lover.
  2. You have to mention the sex of the target.
  3. You need to tag eight victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog saying they’ve been tagged.
  4. If tagged more than once, you don’t need to post again.

Before I get started, let’s just remember that it’s too much to expect other people to be perfect when we ourselves are hardly models of perfec­tion. Having said that, these are quali­ties I would like to find in my perfect mate -

  • She should be able to commu­ni­cate with me on different levels
    She should know what I think and feel, and vice versa, without either of us saying a word. Call it telepathy, if you will.
  • She should share my sense of morals and ethics
    I would find it diffi­cult to respect someone who had views about ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ different from mine.
  • She should give me my space when I need it
    Maybe the lunar cycles have something to do with it. Sometimes I like to socialize, and sometimes I wish to be left alone.
  • She should talk about inter­esting things
    This is actually two different quali­ties combined into one point. First, I prefer to listen (which means I don’t talk too much), so she should be willing to talk. Second, she should talk about things that interest either of us. She should have opinions about every­thing; I don’t mind if she disagrees with me, but she should be able to defend her views.
  • She should be open to new ideas
    Some people do things because they must be done; they don’t question anything, nor do they like change. She shouldn’t be one of these people; she should be willing to try out new things, and listen to and analyse alter­nate points of view, although she needn’t neces­sarily accept them.
  • She must be loyal, trust­worthy and respon­sible
    She should display a sense of loyalty towards her friends and close relations, not just me. I should also be able to trust her with impor­tant things, without having to worry too much.
  • She should be attrac­tive
    I won’t say anything about her being pretty. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. As long as she seems attrac­tive to me, and I, to her, I’m satisfied.
  • She should be willing to travel by my Time Machine
    Yes, I’m going to develop a Time Machine and travel across space-time, and I wouldn’t want to be alone. She should be ready to share my adventures.

These are the people I have tagged -

Simit
Ujjwal
Avi
Sujit
Chaitanya
Satish
Kanishk
Anti

3 Responses to “Seeking Perfection”

  1. satish Says:

    I picked up my tag.…
    But how did u find my blogspot??
    BTW, did u find “her”? if yes, did u tell her??

    I found an approach to perfec­tion (in ur terms) but did’nt propose yet…waiting for the time to come.…

    I will post the eight quali­ties and tags in my blogspot soon.….

  2. The 'G' Says:

    I agree with every quality except the last one.What if she defends her right to stay out of the time machine?

  3. Ramnath R Iyer Says:

    It’s okay if she wants to stay away from my time-machine, but I don’t think long-distance relation­ships will work for me, so I won’t it put this scenario in the “perfect” category. ;-)

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