Seeking Perfection
I’ve been tagged by Varun.
So what do you do when you’re tagged?
- You have to come up with eight different qualities of your perfect lover.
- You have to mention the sex of the target.
- You need to tag eight victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog saying they’ve been tagged.
- If tagged more than once, you don’t need to post again.
Before I get started, let’s just remember that it’s too much to expect other people to be perfect when we ourselves are hardly models of perfection. Having said that, these are qualities I would like to find in my perfect mate -
- She should be able to communicate with me on different levels
She should know what I think and feel, and vice versa, without either of us saying a word. Call it telepathy, if you will. - She should share my sense of morals and ethics
I would find it difficult to respect someone who had views about ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ different from mine. - She should give me my space when I need it
Maybe the lunar cycles have something to do with it. Sometimes I like to socialize, and sometimes I wish to be left alone. - She should talk about interesting things
This is actually two different qualities combined into one point. First, I prefer to listen (which means I don’t talk too much), so she should be willing to talk. Second, she should talk about things that interest either of us. She should have opinions about everything; I don’t mind if she disagrees with me, but she should be able to defend her views. - She should be open to new ideas
Some people do things because they must be done; they don’t question anything, nor do they like change. She shouldn’t be one of these people; she should be willing to try out new things, and listen to and analyse alternate points of view, although she needn’t necessarily accept them. - She must be loyal, trustworthy and responsible
She should display a sense of loyalty towards her friends and close relations, not just me. I should also be able to trust her with important things, without having to worry too much. - She should be attractive
I won’t say anything about her being pretty. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. As long as she seems attractive to me, and I, to her, I’m satisfied. - She should be willing to travel by my Time Machine
Yes, I’m going to develop a Time Machine and travel across space-time, and I wouldn’t want to be alone. She should be ready to share my adventures.
These are the people I have tagged -

March 19th, 2006 at 11:13
I picked up my tag.…
But how did u find my blogspot??
BTW, did u find “her”? if yes, did u tell her??
I found an approach to perfection (in ur terms) but did’nt propose yet…waiting for the time to come.…
I will post the eight qualities and tags in my blogspot soon.….
March 29th, 2006 at 01:29
I agree with every quality except the last one.What if she defends her right to stay out of the time machine?
March 29th, 2006 at 02:19
It’s okay if she wants to stay away from my time-machine, but I don’t think long-distance relationships will work for me, so I won’t it put this scenario in the “perfect” category.